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My PLC - Prior Life Challenges
Ancestral diaspora as indentured servants/slaves from India to British Guiana on S.S. Balniev
Dr. Vishwani (Deepa) Ram-Souza, LMFT, Ph.D., is a marriage and family therapist, researcher, and international speaker whose life work centers on restoring wholeness through reconciled kinship. She is the creator of Nature Family Therapy (NFT) and founder of The Re-Indigenization Project (TRIP), movements that transform pain and separation into resilience and co-flourishing.
Deepa’s vision emerges from a lifetime of holding grief and courage together. She was shaped by her East Indian heritage, guided by Dharma and Advaita Vedanta, and refined through decades of professional practice and personal challenge. Her healing journey—marked by childhood trauma, the devotion of motherhood, and the long labor of sustaining family through imbalance—has been the fertile ground from which NFT and TRIP have grown.
Her scholarship is rooted in Wholeness-Based Eudaimonia, the subject of her doctoral research, which explores how humans thrive when spiritual, relational, ecological, and ancestral bonds are honored as one. As leader of the Spirituality Special Interest Group in Nairobi, she collaborates internationally to embed this kincentric paradigm into research, training, and therapeutic practice.
Today, Deepa devotes her work to teaching others how to transform Nature Family Grief—the pain of separation created by modernization and colonization—into Nature Family Resilience, a restored way of living as one Nature Family. She does this through books, trainings, public speaking, and global collaborations, always with the same invitation:
Come home. You belong to the web of life. Your path toward wholeness is already waiting.
From this pain came grief - a witnessing of how our wounds reflect the state of our disengaged bonds with one another and with the beyond-human world.
And from this grief emerged resilience when these wounds were re-imagined as pathways back to restored wholeness, and reconciled co-flourishing as one Nature Family.
My PLC - Prior Life Challenges
Ancestral diaspora as indentured servants/slaves from India to British Guiana on S.S. Balniev
My arrival as third generation Indo-Guyanese in Anna Catherina, Guyana
Great Grandpa Raghunandan passed on
My ELC - Early Life Challenges
Age 8, I was inappropriately touched by a male relative
Relocated to Minneapolis, MN
I married my best friend and soulmate, John
The birth of our little light, Jyoti
John and I graduated from our Master's program in Marriage and Family Therapy in Minneapolis, MN
The liberation of my archetypes as FyreSnake
The liberation of my archetypes as FyreSnake
(Photo by John Lombardi)
I began to push to edges as I learned to walk barefoot on snow (Photo by Tawamiciya Photography)
I portray Kali Ma in Stromboli's Medicine Show in Minneapolis, MN (Photo by Liz Nieves)
Relocated with my family of creation to Hilo, HI
Opening of our private practice therapy office Elemental Guidance, LLC in Hilo, HI
Standing by my maternal grandmother's pyre during MukhAgni in Guyana
Co-organized "Coming Home" conference with Dr. Gay Barfield as presenter on O'ahu, HI
Following my grandmother's death and entering into studenthood, strange things started to happen. I had many beyond human messengers: moth, hawk, crane, dragonflies, butterflies, snake, Grandmother Moon...
Here are "The Twins" at Earthrise in Peteluma, CA where I attended intensive retreats for my doctoral program with California Institute of Integral Studies. I didn't know it then but this sacred moment was calling me to reawaken to my purpose. I wrote about it in my dissertation.
Entering Studenthood (Sanyasi) to reconcile through liberation (of hair, old interpretations of lived experiences, and sanctioned societal standards of beauty)
I sat at George Floyd Square and wrote my dissertation's abstract on Wholeness-Based Eudaimonia in Minneapolis, MN
Defended My Dissertation on Wholeness-Based Eudaimonia (Ram-Souza, 2022)
Commencement Ceremony - Ph.D. in Integral and Transpersonal Psychology in San Francisco, CA
Introducing Nature Family Therapy at the HBHWC Convention on O'ahu, HI
Introduced TRIP with Dr. John Souza, Jr. at AAMFT Leadership Symposium in Phoenix, AZ
I made the hardest/kindest decision - Dr. Velvet transitioned on Dec. 28. My grief is being transformed into resilience, thanks to her divine guidance and companionship to this day. She left us a message: "Love Never Dies."
"One Nature Family: Restoring Wholeness by Reconciling Kinships" is being written as a responsibility and an answer to my life purpose.